We've gotten our Toyotas from Acton Toyota, and been happy with them. But you shouldn't have to go that far for a reasonable shopping experience. I know of no one that has had a good experience with Watertown Toyota.

I know that wireless Apple CarPlay is out there, I'd think wireless Android Auto would be as well. I don't have it, but I don't mind because I rather like having the phone charging during the drive. It's a habit now to plug in when I get in, and to unplug when I get out.

I'd be willing to bet there is an aux capability on the head end, just that no jack is exposed to the user. Car A/V places could add a jack somewhere. I've done it when I replaced the head end in my old Toyota.