PS You could not lose me as a friend by writing that story.
I know who I was, and I'm older and different-if-not-wiser now. I would not do the same things again, in the same ways.
One of the weirdest conversations I /ever/ had was with Randy at Glen Linn, where we finally hammered out a lot of stuff. He was, I think, surprised at how willing I was to talk about what I/we did wrong. He did a little of the same, and we were humbly and honest with each other.
And EVERYONE that loved EITHER of us walked around us in a 30 foot circle as they went from place to place - worried, but glad that we talked so openly and so well.
I felt very different after that conversation was over.
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Date: 2012-06-06 05:17 pm (UTC)I know who I was, and I'm older and different-if-not-wiser now. I would not do the same things again, in the same ways.
One of the weirdest conversations I /ever/ had was with Randy at Glen Linn, where we finally hammered out a lot of stuff. He was, I think, surprised at how willing I was to talk about what I/we did wrong. He did a little of the same, and we were humbly and honest with each other.
And EVERYONE that loved EITHER of us walked around us in a 30 foot circle as they went from place to place - worried, but glad that we talked so openly and so well.
I felt very different after that conversation was over.