It occurs to me that there's something far more simple than *all* of this:
Have you never seen a kid out walking, holding their parent's hand? Nothing wrong with that, right? It isn't holding back a kid's independence to hold Mom or Dad's hand when they are out walking....
What do you expect the day care to do, when the caregivers don't have six pairs of arms?
Just because you, as an adult, put a bondage association on ropes, don't expect the kids to do so. To them, it is just an extension of the human hand!
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Date: 2012-08-23 04:15 am (UTC)Have you never seen a kid out walking, holding their parent's hand? Nothing wrong with that, right? It isn't holding back a kid's independence to hold Mom or Dad's hand when they are out walking....
What do you expect the day care to do, when the caregivers don't have six pairs of arms?
Just because you, as an adult, put a bondage association on ropes, don't expect the kids to do so. To them, it is just an extension of the human hand!