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Okay, I normally don't get around to these. And this one is, of course, terribly late. But having seen it in [livejournal.com profile] dagonell's journal, I find myself compelled to fill it out, because it's much more interesting than most...

1. What is your most prized material possession?

The hardest question of the lot. Despite having vast amounts of cruft, very few individual items matter all that much to me. There are some individual comics that I'm very fond of, but not that much so. For a while, my copy of A History of Board Games Other Than Chess was way up there, because I spent so long hunting down that book; however, it's just come back into print, which sort of spoils the fun. Possibly the library collectively -- I take great pride in our collections of both facsimiles of period texts, and specialized libraries on subjects like games and cooking. But that seems too large to really match the question.

Really, I'm not sure. I think the things I prize most tend to be intangibles like my writings and other intellectual works, more than the material possessions, so the most accurate answer would probably be my websites. (Not "material" precisely, but it's psychologically real.) And the cats, of course, but one can hardly call them "possessions". (One does not own cats; one is owned by cats.)

Bit by bit, I'm trying to bring out my own Buddha nature a little, and get less attached to specific things. I was very struck the other night, when I had a dream that I'd come home and found that the house had burned down utterly. The striking thing was that, after a moment of anguish, I basically shrugged and said, "we can rebuild". I think that would have been a much worse nightmare only a few years ago...

2. What item, that you currently own, have you had the longest?

Hard to be sure, but it's probably paper. Might be one of the kids books (if I still have any of my early ones); might be my first comic book (which would either be Flash or Legion of Super-Heroes; I'm not sure which came first); might be one of my notebooks with incredibly trite stories written when I was young.

3. Are you a packrat?

I think it is fair to say that [livejournal.com profile] msmemory and I are close to the Platonic ideal of packrats. We don't so much collect stuff as we accumulate it. (Well, okay, that isn't true -- we also collect stuff. It's not as if we've actually used all of the cookbooks -- we just like the security of knowing that, no matter what the question, we can look it up.) We're fairly serious packrats individually, and we enable each other to an astonishing degree.

Actually, though, things are beginning to improve. I've finally begun to turn my thinking around, so that when I contemplate a purchase, I no longer ask myself, "can I afford this?". (Which almost never stops me.) Instead, I ask, "can I find somewhere to put this?". At this point, that test seems to be preventing the vast majority of my impulse purchases...

4. Do you prefer a spic-and-span clean house? Or is some clutter necessary to avoid the appearance of a museum?

While I think we'd both like the house tidier than it is, I think we'd go insane in a "spic-and-span" one. I look at houses on HGTV, and they look like they're owned by incredibly boring people. Cruft is fun, provided it doesn't take over completely...

5. Do the rooms in your house have a theme? Or is it a mixture of knick-knacks here and there?

I don't know if I'd call it "themed" per se -- it's mostly functionally defined, and mostly by which books are where. The SCA materials and files are in the library (along with the SF); the more idiosyncratic subjects like religion and humor and literature are in the sewing room; the stuff we use day-to-day (or is simply cool) is in the living room; and the cookbooks are in the kitchen, of course. (For the moment; we've only got 20 or so linear feet of bookshelf in the kitchen, and it's pretty much full.) Exactly which collections go where is a tad random, but we're moderately consistent about putting things in the places we expect...

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Date: 2003-02-25 12:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] msmemory.livejournal.com
If the whole lot had burned down while we were on vacation, the stuff I'd be sorriest to lose, besides the cats (!), is the contents of the computer, and some of my heirloom stuff from Dad's family, like the old family Bibles, photos, and genealogical records. (See, that's why I want to see if we can back up the computer to CDs and put them in the safe-deposit box.)

The clothes, the furniture, even the books could be replaced with sufficient funds.

Spic and span clean house? Hah! Never happen if I'm living there. Still, I'd like to feel that if my friends brought their kids over, nobody would get poisoned eating things that had fallen on the floor. Therefore we are going to have some Spring Cleaning in the next few months.

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Date: 2003-02-25 12:39 pm (UTC)
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My reaction to the first question is pretty similar. I guess my most valued physical posession would be the house itself (it's a really cool house in a lot of ways). If I woke up in the middle of the night to find the place on fire, the first things I would grab (after waking up Dani) would be the cats, followed by either the computer CPU or the external hard drive (first-line backup device). The computer itself isn't valuable; it's the data, and off-site backups are never done as often as they should be. Sure, I have some irreplacable stuff, like family photos and art (SCA scrolls, other art) and out-of-print books, and I'd be upset to lose it, but it's not on the same level as the cats and my data.

Not that a fire wouldn't be extremely upsetting; I can't manage "we can rebuild" yet...

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Date: 2003-02-25 01:41 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] tpau
it is absolutly amazing what one can leave behind. i don't think even the computer woudl prove of value, though if i had time i would get hte hard drive out... the books can be replaced, even the old out of print russian ones. the stuff is jsut stuff. i woudl get the box of 100 year old photos, the hards drive, and enough clothing to last a week if i could. adni would be very upset about the rest, but i woudl live. i gues si have learned a lot form watchign my parents leave it all behind. though i hav eto say, it was absolutly hearbreakign to see my grandmother put all ehr posessions in the middle of her tiny oen room apartment and cry over every single thing she knew she could nto bring. they were all pre-1920 thigns and could nto be take out of the country.

peopel start over. it can be done. it jsut stinks. and it always bothered me for some reason to have the "college dorm floor ice breaker" of what you woudl choose to save in case of fire... never was sure why...

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