Charity Rant
Aug. 1st, 2005 04:42 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Yes, I know that you're a good cause -- I wouldn't have sent money to you otherwise. But when you construe that donation as a "membership", and imply that I am therefore somehow obligated to follow it up with the same amount (or, preferably, more) next year, that does nothing to endear your cause to me. And when you begin to send me monthly notices about the latest Urgent Crisis that requires more money from me, I will start to throw out your mail unopened. There are plenty of other deserving charities out there, and some of them are significantly less annoying than you.
(The worst thing about the above is that it applies equally well to a couple *dozen* organizations that are postal-spamming me, effectively colluding to make me thoroughly cynical about the whole concept. When 3/4 of my mail is charities dunning me for cash, it just gets tiresome. Bloody tragedy of the commons...)
(The worst thing about the above is that it applies equally well to a couple *dozen* organizations that are postal-spamming me, effectively colluding to make me thoroughly cynical about the whole concept. When 3/4 of my mail is charities dunning me for cash, it just gets tiresome. Bloody tragedy of the commons...)
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Date: 2005-08-01 08:44 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-08-01 08:45 pm (UTC)-- Dagonell
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Date: 2005-08-01 09:37 pm (UTC)One year, when I told them I wasn't going to send them an out-of-cycle donation, the woman said, "I understand. These are pretty hard times for us all." That's when I snapped and told her that they had just received the largest IN-CYCLE donation I'd ever given them, about a month before this call.
Last year (maybe the year before), I was barraged with calls for an out-of-cycle donation. The last one was while I was on the Metro. The other people in my immediate area heard, "FOR THE ***SIXTH*** TIME, YOU ARE NOT GETTING A PENNY FROM ME UNTIL PLEDGE WEEK! STOP CALLING!" There was much laughter, presumably laughter of familiarity.
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Date: 2005-08-02 07:02 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-08-01 09:42 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-08-01 10:06 pm (UTC)Now it's surveys. I took a couple, in fits of being flattered at being asked. Now they are surveying me once a week or more. I'm gonna have to ask to be removed.
It seems a matter of degrees - one polite call or thank you note a year would be well-recieved. 10 such a week becomes overwhelming.
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Date: 2005-08-01 11:39 pm (UTC)Negative donations
Date: 2005-08-02 07:05 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-08-02 12:43 am (UTC)Interesting side note: Small Dog Electronics lets you make donations through their website, as if they were a product. They (a) match the amount, to a yearly cap, and (b) since it's them making the donations and not you, you don't get spam from the companies. More details here. Imagine if, say, Amazon picked this up...
(And yes, I trust Small Dog -- specifically, them, not companies in general -- to actually be making the donations.)
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Date: 2005-08-02 12:07 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-08-02 12:25 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-08-02 02:38 am (UTC)Also, when it -is- a membership (Sierra Club, for example, is a membership qualifies you to go on some of their cool trips), telling me that it's going to expire SOON when it's six months from expiring? Not cool.
Selling my name to other groups? Double-plus uncool. I had words with them over that one.
On the other hand, they don't call me for cash, which is nice. They do listen about that.
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Date: 2005-08-02 01:37 pm (UTC)The perils of membership
Date: 2005-08-04 08:20 am (UTC)